What does it mean to be a man?-Difficult question to answer isn't it? This is my story and my experiences as I was looking for answers to this question. Some men will face a crossroad and get stuck. Some men will continue on the same path that they have always traveled. A few men will get to a place, where it has gotten bad enough, to want to walk down a different road. My reason for writing this book is to discuss the following: What are these crossroads? What are the signs? What are the steps to follow a different road? All I can do is share what I experienced, and what works and what does not work. I also have the teachings I learned from hundreds of men that I have been blessed to be with and work with over these years. I share with you what the Elders taught me and what I have learned from over 20 years of leading men's retreats all over the United States. Along the way, I will pass on some of my dad, Greywolf's teachings. I'm not a therapist, physiologist, pastor, social worker or part of the healthcare community. What I am, is a man who heard his wake up call. And with the help of a group of men began a new journey into becoming a different man. Part of my call was to become a men's retreat leader author, speaker, teacher, facilitator and coach. After many years of doing my own work and leading men's retreats, I discovered there are 7 crossroads a man will face in his life. I do not claim to have all the answers because I cannot provide them.